A temporary idyll amid emptying classrooms

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It probably does not bode well
that the predominant feeling
that I get from my classmates
is that they would prefer
that I not be
there.

Comments

[seraphmoon.livejournal.com]

How much of an age difference is there between you and your classmates? The age range in my class is from about fifty to eighteen, and I'm not having that much of a problem - but then again, there are sixteen people in my class.

When I was at culinary school, even though the age range was about the same there was a lot of grouping along age lines simply because there were a hell of a lot more people. I was only twenty-one and I still felt excluded sometimes.

But whatever the reason, don't sweat it. In fact, screw them and their petty little narrow-minded cliquety ways. If they feel weird having you there, then that's their problem and not yours. Similarly, if they forget their books then it's their problem, not yours. Letting them look over your shoulder is fine up to a point - but it's not your job to take care of them.

That's me, of course. I'm a very mean person and I really don't give a damn anymore about whether people like or want to have me in class. If they do, it's nice, and if they don't, it's fine; I'm there to learn and I'm going to do it.

And that's the cheese of it: what are you in class for, and will their feelings and personal preferences have any effect on that?