'swhy I said "in your opinion". ;) I don't know what my formula is, exactly, but I know that it's different from that of ... probably most other people - and I'm pretty comfortable with it, even though it causes me a lot of pain, a lot of the time. What I'm curious to know is how other people view the phenomenon; I'm not really looking for "how should I...?" so much as "how do you...?".